Frequently Asked Questions
ABOUT SCREENING:
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This is my first time seeing a provider, so how does this work?
Welcome here! I'm always happy to see someone new. Screening is required for everyone, so please fill out the booking form first. I know it may be uncomfortable to share personal information online, but I must verify your identity before I can schedule a rendezvous. I hope you understand this is for my safety.
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I'll send you a confirmation email on the evening before and the morning of your appointment. For incalls, please message me when you arrive, and I'll provide directions to the room. Hygiene is essential to me, so feel free to use the shower and toiletries available. For outcalls, I'll let you know the estimated arrival time when I'm on my way.
Donations are accepted in cash only and should be ready upon your arrival, preferably in an unsealed envelope. If you decide to extend the session and do not have extra cash available, Venmo and CashApp are acceptable. You don't need to bring anything else, though a bottle of wine is always appreciated. Some more helpful beginner tips
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Is my information fully confidential?
Definitely. I can assure you that I never reveal or retain anyone's personal data since privacy and discretion are paramount to me. I guarantee that any information you share will remain 100% confidential. As an additional security measure, I recommend creating a ProtonMail account, because it provides end-to-end encryption.
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Can we discuss services after screening if I'm approved?
No, I never discuss services. Any attempt will result in immediate cancellation if you have an appointment booked.
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Can you send me an uncensored photo if I pass the screening?
No, I am uncomfortable showing my face online, including in private messages.
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Do Preferred 411 members have to screen?
Active P411 members may send an appointment or prescreen request in lieu of filling out the form here. Depending on the amount of information in your user profile, I may need to ask for additional details.
ABOUT APPOINTMENTS:
What neighborhood is your incall location in?
Daytime appointments are mostly in The Magnificent Mile area, where Day Use usually has the most options. If you ever need an upscale hotel room for a few hours during the day, Day Use has you covered. Evening rendezvous are usually in River North, and I know of some fantastic places for us to have dinner or drinks together first. I also travel to Schaumburg occasionally for incalls.
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Do you book appointments on the same day?
Sometimes. Last-minute appointments are usually challenging to accommodate, since I need a few hours' notice.
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What is your late/cancellation policy?
If you are running late or need to reschedule, please let me know as soon as possible. Traveling downtown can always be unpredictable, so I understand it can happen.
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Do you require deposits?
Not usually, but a $100 deposit through Venmo or CashApp may be necessary if you have multiple reports of no-call/no-show appointments on any of the blacklist sites. This is refundable until 24 hours before your scheduled appointment time. All FMTY (fly me to you) appointments require a deposit first.
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Can I invite another provider to join us?
Yes, of course. If her donation rate differs from mine, please match the higher rate for the sake of equality. I also offer doubles with my beautiful friend Nelly.
ABOUT ME:
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Why don't you allow reviews?
As mentioned earlier, I take privacy and discretion very seriously, and I am not comfortable with the discussion of services. Each appointment is customized for the individual, since I believe that fixed procedures do not offer the best experience. In addition, my goal is to make every person I meet feel like the only one, and I believe that allowing reviews would contradict this. So please respect my boundaries by not mentioning me anywhere online (even if you say nice things).
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How do I know you're legitimate if you don't have any reviews?
In today's day and age, having a strong online presence can really boost a person's credibility (which I look for during screening). I update my Instagram and Twitter with new selfies regularly so y'all can see how I look outside of a professional photoshoot. I've been verified and approved by Tryst, Slixa, Eros, RS2K, and Escort-Ads. I also have multiple "Okays" on Preferred 411. These ad sites all have a strict registration process, including sending same-day photos.
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Can we meet outside of here, during your free time?
No, my time is quite valuable to me. If you wish to spend more time together, please consider booking a longer appointment or dinner date.
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What would you like as a gift?
I'm not expecting any gifts; I'm just happy to see you. If you want to surprise me, my wishlist on Moonsift conveys my sense of style and general preferences.
MISCELLANEOUS:
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Can you provide a reference for me if I choose to see a different provider?
Yes, as long as we have met in person before.
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Do you recommend any verification sites?
There are a few provider verification sites that I'm familiar with that screen both providers and clients. My favorite is Preferred 411. After a rendezvous, members can provide one another with an "Okay" as an equal and effortless recommendation. Every P411 profile shows the amount of Okays a user has. RS2K and Escort-Ads also have a system for mutual screening, though I'm new to these sites and have not used either yet.
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Regarding sites with evaluations, I would not recommend The Erotic Review, since its system is highly unfair to providers (who cannot respond to reviews). The full-length membership reviews on TER must include explicit details and several paragraphs in order to be approved. Alternatively, Private Delights has a more balanced dynamic, and reviewers are not required to write a novel or overshare. On Escort-Ads.com, allowing reviews and providing a list of services are both optional for providers.
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