Frequently Asked Questions
ABOUT SCREENING:
Is my information fully confidential?
Definitely! I can assure you that I never disclose or store anyone's personal data, as privacy and discretion are of utmost importance to me. I guarantee that any information you share will remain 100% confidential. As an additional security measure, I recommend creating a ProtonMail account, since it provides end-to-end encryption.
Can we discuss services after screening if I'm approved?
No, I never discuss services before appointments, so please don't make me block you.
Can you send me an uncensored photo if I pass the screening?
No, I am uncomfortable showing my face online, including in private messages.
Do Preferred 411 members have to screen?
Active members may opt to send an appointment or prescreen request instead of completing the form here. However, I might need to request more details or ask you to fill out the entire form, depending on your "Okay" count and the info in your profile.
This is my first time seeing a provider, so how does this work?
Welcome here! I'm always happy to see someone new. Screening is required for everyone, so please fill out the booking form first. I know it may be uncomfortable to share personal information online, but I must verify your identity before I can schedule a rendezvous. I hope you understand this is for my safety.
Incall appointments are held at my place; outcall appointments are held at yours. For incalls, please message me when you arrive, and I'll provide directions to the room. Good hygiene is essential to me, so feel free to use the shower and toiletries available in my bathroom. For outcalls, I'll let you know the estimated arrival time when I'm on my way.
Donations are accepted in cash only and should be ready upon your arrival, preferably in an unsealed envelope or inside a greeting card or newspaper if we're in a public place. If you decide to extend the session and do not have extra cash available, Venmo and CashApp are acceptable. You don't need to bring anything else, though a bottle of wine is always appreciated. Some more helpful beginner tips
ABOUT APPOINTMENTS:
What neighborhood is your incall location in?
I usually stay in the Gold Coast or Magnificent Mile when I'm in downtown Chicago. I prefer the French Quarter in New Orleans, and in Houston, you can find me in The Woodlands. Wherever we meet, I know of some fantastic places to have dinner or drinks together first.
Do you do half-hour appointments?
No, there is a one-hour minimum, even if you are unable to stay the entire time.
Do you book appointments on the same day?
Yes, if I have the time available. Last-minute nighttime requests are usually impossible.
What is your late/cancellation policy?
If you are running late or need to cancel or reschedule, please let me know as soon as possible. Traveling downtown can always be unpredictable, so I understand it can happen.
Do you offer FMTY (fly me to you) appointments?
Yes, though I prefer meeting in person first. There is a three-hour minimum plus all travel expenses.
Do you require deposits?
A deposit may be required for future bookings if you have a no-call/no-show appointment or multiple same-day cancellations.
Can I invite another provider to join us?
Yes, of course! If her donation rate differs from mine, please match the higher rate for equality.
ABOUT ME:
Why don't you allow reviews?
As mentioned earlier, I take privacy and discretion very seriously, and I am not comfortable with the discussion of services. Each appointment is customized for the individual, since I believe that fixed procedures do not offer the best experience. In addition, my goal is to make every person I meet feel like the only one, and I believe that allowing reviews would contradict this. So please respect my boundaries by not mentioning me anywhere online, even if you say nice things. If you do find any reviews about me, then they were written without my consent (and please let me know!).
How do I know you're legitimate if you don't allow reviews?
In today's day and age, having a strong online presence can really boost a person's credibility (which I look for during screening). I've been verified and approved by Tryst, Slixa, Eros, RS2K, and Escort-Ads. I also have multiple "Okays" on Preferred 411. These ad sites all have a strict registration process, including sending same-day photos. I also update my Instagram and Twitter with new selfies regularly, so y'all can see how I look outside of a professional photoshoot (you may have to log in, create an account, or turn off the filter for adult content if they aren't showing up).
What would you like as a gift?
I'm not expecting any gifts; I'm just happy to see you. If you want to surprise me, my wishlist on Moonsift conveys my sense of style and general preferences.
MISCELLANEOUS:
Can you provide a reference for me if I choose to see a different provider?
Absolutely, as long as we have met in person before.
Can we meet outside of here during your free time?
No, my time is quite valuable to me. If you wish to spend more time together, please consider booking a longer rendezvous or dinner date.
How do you get a nice hotel room early in the day?
Check out Day Use if you ever need a mid-tier or luxury hotel room for a few hours during the daytime or early evenings.
Do you recommend any verification or review sites?
I'm familiar with several provider verification sites that screen both providers and clients. One popular option is Preferred 411. After a rendezvous, members can provide one another with an "Okay," and every P411 profile shows the number of Okays a user has. Room Service 2000 and Escort-Ads also provide a mutual verification service, in which members can be pre-screened when creating an account. All three are excellent options.
Regarding sites with evaluations, I would not recommend The Erotic Review, since its system is highly unfair to providers (who cannot respond to reviews). The full-length membership reviews on TER must include explicit details and several paragraphs in order to be approved, while negative or fake reviews are never deleted. I also discovered that profiles can be created without consent from the provider when I found myself there. Alternatively, Private Delights has a more balanced dynamic, and reviewers are not required to write a novel or overshare. On Escort-Ads.com, allowing reviews and providing a list of services are both optional for providers.
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